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“Sexual Jim Crow”: Gay Men and Cyber Racism in the Age of Grindr

“Sexual Jim Crow”: Gay Men and Cyber Racism in the Age of Grindr

I have a confession. Due to intense boredom and mild feelings of loneliness and invisibility, I recently downloaded grinder. For those unfamiliar with Grindr, it is a geosocial networking app for gay men looking for social and sexual connection. Oftentimes Grindr has been attacked due to the superficiality and instant hookups that have been known … Continue reading

The Right Way to Give

The Right Way to Give

Foolishly I spent my twenties haphazardly giving my love and assistance to the wrong people. I gave too many second chances, tolerated too many bullshit excuses, believed too many lies, trusted too many snakes. I didn’t listen enough to my intuition and as a result I was played more times than a Beyonce mixtape. I … Continue reading