The Right Way to Give

The Right Way to Give

Foolishly I spent my twenties haphazardly giving my love and assistance to the wrong people. I gave too many second chances, tolerated too many bullshit excuses, believed too many lies, trusted too many snakes. I didn’t listen enough to my intuition and as a result I was played more times than a Beyonce mixtape. I … Continue reading

Men Who Hate Men and The Men Who Love Them: Exploring The Tenets of Misandry Within The Gay Community

Men Who Hate Men and The Men Who Love Them: Exploring The Tenets of Misandry Within The Gay Community

The gay community has always been a community that has bolstered a strong sense of pride and unity. Historically, it has been a culture that has collectively worked to build and maintain equality at all costs. However in this community of men who love men there exists a disturbing contradiction that silently threatens to undermine … Continue reading

The Culture Of Shade

The Culture Of Shade

Recently a local buddy of mine showed me an online exchange he had engaged in with a potential sex partner he met on Grindr. What started off as a friendly conversation between two consenting adults quickly turned into an over the top read session that in hindsight was quite unnecessary.  Here’s how it started: My … Continue reading